the curious wife. You can't ever be % sure, that's the bottom line. If you have any sores in your mouth, or bad gums, or gasp, take his load into your mouth, you are in danger. If you don't use a condom, danger. The HIV virus dies when it hits the air, but, as you can, there is still that danger. Hep, on the other hand, can live for months just about anywhere, danger. STD's are rampant, as always, and you can get them in your blow hole, so danger. I suggest that you move to a different planet, one that is safe. I go with all.