year old, I'm sorry. You can't figure out what to say to your nasty-tempered wife about hearing her having sex? How about you tell her to direct her bile towards her daughter. Evidently Married women looking xxx dating best free online dating site she can't stand up to her, but she sure can whip your ass. What you should have done was put the daughter on the phone with mumsy. If she wasn't home, tell your wife to take it up with her kid, and repeat the below paragraph. Than up. Tell her you're not investing in earplugs and a soundproof headset to wear to bed so her daughter can bonk her brains out every time mommy goes out, and you're not going to play daddy to this adult 24 year old (whose daddy you are not) and tell her off for her mother, who can't or won't deal with it. You're not getting out of bed and leaving the house, or doing anything about HER kid's sex life (and at 24, no house rules are going to mean anything; she's going to do exactly as she pleases, every she gets, which is self-evident now.) Tell her it's on her to get her in line, or get her out and living on her own as an adult the way an adult should be. The bullshit about "you were listening" is just that, bullshit, designed to put the blame on you (you should have turned your ears off, stupid) and deflect it away from the two of them. You're a complete fool to get wounded and upset and think "they think I'm a pervert!" You sound absolutely ridiculous, because a blind can their argument is laughable. Which is what you probably should have done, laughed at your wife's screaming fit and said " Yes dear, I'll turn my ears off from now on when goes to bed with Bonzo." If I were you, I'd rip into the two of them like they've never seen before, but mostly your wife. For god's sake, take a freaking stand for yourself, be a. Then I'd rent a nice porn movie, and after the two of them go to bed, put it on. Just loud enough so you're sure they can hear it. When they complain, tell them to turn their ears off, the filthy perverts. (Please report back to us here so I can know what happened :D If the daughter has no responsibility, lives there for free, remember she sure as hell won't be moving out if she's knocked up. Mention that to mommy dearest.